Robertson, Duncan

About me

Having retired from my professional career I wanted to do something worthwhile, preferably involving people.

When my father in law David died about seven years ago the family were undecided about what sort of Ceremony would be appropriate. As a family we have no religious beliefs. After some research and discussion it was decided a Humanist Ceremony would really be appropriate and so it was.

We all thought the ceremony was inspirational and left the crematorium knowing much more about Dave and his life; it was a truly fitting tribute to a fine man. I thought about it for months afterwards and more to the point I was conscious of his influence not only within the entire family but amongst his friends and their memories of him. This made me think quite deeply about people’s lives and how one does affect another.

My retirement afforded me the opportunity to train as a Humanist Celebrant, so here I am.

I trained in November 2006 and since then I have conducted many ceremonies; firstly funerals and following further training also weddings. I find the work incredibly rewarding and worthwhile.

What Humanism means to me

For the main part of my life, over 30 years, I have been involved with a diversity of people and their lives. That experience has taught me a great deal and if I can now use that experience and knowledge to play a small and hopefully beneficial part in others lives I will have achieved a great deal, my life will be greatly enriched. I focus on the human values we all share rather than any matters which may divide us. What is really important is living an ethical, worthwhile and meaningful life.

Funerals

Meeting and chatting with the bereaved is thought provoking. I enjoy hearing about peoples lives; their characters, interests, careers, hobbies, achievements. People can be truly fascinating. I am frequently surprised even amazed not only by the people themselves but how they lived and what they achieved while they lived. Conversation with the bereaved is I find generally therapeutic for everyone concerned. This also helps me write and deliver a fitting tribute. I have received correspondence from many families I have been involved with and consider it a privilege to have been a part of their lives at such an emotional time. 

How I feel about being a Wedding Celebrant
I am delighted to be asked. I thoroughly enjoy meeting and working with people towards the grand day ahead. I take great pleasure from my role on the day; it is important to me to ensure you have a memorable day and enjoy it.

My approach to weddings
I make a point of meeting you as soon as practicable. I feel it provides a personal touch and an early opportunity to discuss your plans and the structure of the ceremony. Subsequently I provide sample copies of ceremonies as a guide and a file of wedding poetry and prose for your perusal. I will arrange to meet again within the three months prior to your wedding to prepare the Ceremony. I will either write the ceremony for you or am happy to be your voice if you choose to write your own. I am here to help.

My advice to you
I see it as my part to keep you on course for one of the best days of your lives. Most importantly I will explain the legal requirements. We all want the same thing, to ensure you have a great day.

Wedding locations

I love historical buildings and ruins. There is just something truly romantic about being a part of history, there is a feeling of permanence.

Wedding Music

Today there is such a vast and diverse choice available. You will have your own favourites. Personally there is nothing to beat the pipes at a historical outdoor location. The harp, violin and Cello can be magical. At a recent wedding the grooms father played Mari's wedding on a saw, it was just perfect.